I like people who understand.

The type who aren’t quick to judge. You can vent to them, and labeling you will be the last thing on their mind. They don’t believe rumors because they know there are two sides to every story. They give you chance, before they judge you. They get to know who you really are, then have an opinion. I like those type of people, real people. 

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Jangan berharap teman anda bersifat sabar, jika anda sendiri tidak sabar. Daripada menunggu orang lain sabar, lebih baik diri sendiri yang memulai untuk sabar.
Yusuf Mansur

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psych-facts:
Procrastination is linked to poor work habits, feeling overwhelmed, aiming for perfection, and wanting to do something else instead. You can overcome procrastination by acknowledging that you are procrastinating, making a start on something, focus on ‘getting started’ instead of ‘thinking about finishing,’ breaking large tasks into smaller ones, and not beating yourself up. 
I’m a Procrastionator

psych-facts:

Procrastination is linked to poor work habits, feeling overwhelmed, aiming for perfection, and wanting to do something else instead. You can overcome procrastination by acknowledging that you are procrastinating, making a start on something, focus on ‘getting started’ instead of ‘thinking about finishing,’ breaking large tasks into smaller ones, and not beating yourself up. 

I’m a Procrastionator

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Life will never be perfect no matter how hard you try. Even if you pour your heart and soul into it, you will never have that perfection you seek. There will always be broken hearts. There will always be days where nothing goes right. But I have accepted and learned that even the most imperfect things will always be made better with love, laughter and joy.

Jae Bliss (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

:”)

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Wisuda

  • Disuatu sore..
  • Nenek: Pengen nenek liat kau wisuda.
  • Saya: ........
  • Nenek: ngeliat yang lain udah pada lulus. Berapa lama lagi si selesai.
  • Saya: Koas sekitar 2,5 tahunan lah..
  • Nenek: Mudah-mudahan nenek masih panjang umur liat kau wisuda.
  • Saya: Jleb... :'(

10 Commandments for a Good Life

onlinecounsellingcollege:

1.  I accept that I’m not perfect, and there’s no perfect time – Too many people are hanging around and waiting for the perfect opportunity – or the time when they are perfect and have all the skills they need. But life rewards effort; so get out there and work hard … and eventually you’ll find that you succeed and reach your goals.

2.  I can’t please everyone no matter how hard I try – No matter what you do or how hard you try there will always be someone who’s disgruntled or upset.  So, don’t look for affirmation; just do what you think’s right.

3. I will participate in something I believe in – It doesn’t really matter what activity you choose, as long as it is something that ignites your passion … as this will bring fulfilment and true meaning to your life.

4.  I will learn to prioritise and do what matters first – We all get distracted by what seems to be most urgent … or something that is fun and makes life less of a burden. But if you’re going to succeed you need to set priorities. Don’t allow what’s less important to distract you from your course.  

5.  I will be select when it comes to choosing friends – We’re influenced and shaped by the people we spend time with. Their impact is profound – even though this is subconscious. So be wise in who you choose to be your confidantes and friends. Surround yourself with people who inspire and motivate you.

6. I will be there for others, and will help them if I can – In life, we reap what we sow – and that’s a crucial principle. That means the more that you help others, the more they will help you.

7.  I will choose to focus on the positives – Our thoughts affect our feelings and the ways that we behave. If you don’t expect success then it’s likely you will fail – in your work, relationships and life in general. So listen to your self talk … and straighten out your thinking … and start to focus on the positives!  

8.  I will true to myself – You can’t be happy living someone else’s life. You need to discover and develop your own authentic self.That’s when you’re truly beautiful, and life feels meaningful.

9.  I will live in the present and enjoy the “now” – The past is gone and the future isn’t promised.  Life is happening in this moment, so cease the day and enjoy “now”.

10.  I will look for the good and be thankful for each day – Life is full of gifts, if we will only stop and notice. If we choose to be thankful, and treasure all life’s gifts, then we’ll find our lives are filled with joy and happiness – and the hurts and disappointments won’t weigh us down as much.

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Ilmu di Negeri Ini Tidak Dihargai?

Tadi pagi ada seorang datang ke rumah, menawarkan kompor elektrik, saya tanya ini itu, ternyata dia seorang Engineer, seorang Insinyur elektronika dari sebuah Universitas negeri ternama. Beberapa minggu lalu juga disebuah mall ada seorang dokter yang…

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Dokter Tuh Tajir

Mungkin sering kali kita-kita yang anak kuliahahan ini ditanya “Kuliah ambil jurusan apa?” Trus kan pasti kita jawab “ambil jurusan xxxxx”. Nah… Kalau jawabannya “ambil kedokteran” pasti rata-rata komentar orang:

  • Enak dong ntar
  • Wuiw.. banyak duit dong ya

Trus kemaren pas lagi jaga IGD, ada sepasang suami istri yang kebetulan Saya lagi ngecek infus anaknya. Trus si Bapak bilang gini:

Bapak X: “Dok, nanti gak ada ya tugas di daerah pelosok? Tapi pasti gak mau dong ya tugas di pelosok. Enakan di Kota duitnya banyak.”

Saya: “………….”

Nah.. The point is… orang-orang itu selalu memukul rata atau generalisasi profesi dokter dengan profesi “tajir”, orang kaya, duit.

Padahal tuh kalo menurut Saya sih dokter tuh lebih ke pengabdian. Kenapa? Ngapain juga kita capek-capek, kuliah lama-lama, koass pontang-panting, kurang tidur, belajar, bikin tugas sampe stress, sering telat makan, dimarah sama dosen, konsulen, keluarga pasien, ngeluarin duit banyak buat kuliah dan lain sebagainya cuma supaya jadi TAJIR? Ngapain coba? Mending jadi pedagang aja, bisnis, duit buat kuliah jadiin modal buat dagang.

Coba kalo jadi dokter, lulus kuliah, dapat gelar dokter langsung tajir gitu? Oh… Tentu tidak. Masih ada internship, jadi nantinya kami dikirim ke daerah-daerah dan gajinya? No comment.

Abis itu, masih ada perjuangan lagi cari kerja lagi, dan gajinya? ya.. sama aja dengan gaji PNS biasa. Jadi kalo ada yang bilang dokter tajir? Yah mungkin itu dokter yang udah kerja bertahun-tahun, udah jadi spesialis. Sama aja dengan pekerjaan lain toh, udah kerja bertahun-tahun lama-lama juga bisa tajir kan? Malah mungkin bisa lebih tajir dari dokternya.

Dan kalau memang ada yang dari jadi mahasiswa dia udah tajir, yah.. memang dia nya berasal dari keluarga berada. Memang salahnya dia?

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